You have a morning routine, and most of it is done with "reflexive verbs"!



WE HUMAN BEINGS ARE

REFLEXIVE ACTION


FREAKS!!

But, first, let's chat about verbs for a second and refresh our memories. . . .

First, every language in the world has a set of words categorized as "verbs."   Everyone of these "verbs" has two specific characteristics:

      1.     they are words -- or sets of words! -- that describe actions or states-of-being.

     2.     they place the action somewhen  in time -- we call this characteristic verb tense.

Now, there are many different sub-categories of verbs.   They can be classified as transitive verbs; as present tense verbs; as helping verbs; and, yes, as reflexive verbs, among many others.   We're not going to worry about any of the other types verbs just now . . . let's concentrate on the one sub-category called "reflexive verbs."

There's not a single day in your life that you do not do a bunch of "reflexive verb" actions.

"How can that be?" you ask. . . .
"I don't do 'reflexive' things!" you exclaim. . . .
"I always knew that Steve was a little crazy," you muse. . . .

Nope, he's not crazy – well, maybe a little bit – but not about this!  You and I constantly use "reflexive verbs" in our everyday lives.   Here's a typical morning for many of us — except for the 4 a.m. and fake leg part!

Most mornings, I wake up at 4:00 a.m.  I lay in bed for a minute, then I get up, put on my fake leg and my Nike sandal, and head toward the bathroom.   I turn on the cold water faucet, wait for it to get cold, then fill the glass with cold water so I can take the two pills I take every morning.   Better living through chemistry!  Then, I grab my toothbrush -- hoping that my friend the spider (who lives underneath my medicine cabinet) hasn't been messing with it!  What the heck does he . . . she? eat anyway? . . . there ain't no flies around! -- anyway, I open the toothpaste tube and put a healthy portion of Aquafresh toothpaste on the brush. Then, I brush my teeth.   I then sit on my throne and do my morning business, after which I get up and head toward the shower. I turn on the hot water, wait for it to heat up, take off my leg, then I get in the shower stall.  I have a real set routine in the shower: I shampoo my hair first, then I wash my face with my pink scrubby, rinse myself off , and then I put creme rinse in my hair. I turn off the water, then I wash my bodzuda with Dial soap and my scrubby.  I wash my silicone sleeve – the thing I put on my stumpy leg to hold the fake leg on – and then I turn the water back on.  I rinse my hair, my bod and my sleeve. Then I turn off the shower and grab the towel.  I dry myself off, dry my sleeve, then I put the sleeve on my stump and put on my fake leg.   I brush my hair and put a couple of caterpillars in it (those are the things that hold my hair in a pony tail).  Then, I walk back to the bedroom and sit down on the end of the bed.  I take off the leg and the sleeve, then I put some medicine on my stump end.  I put on the sleeve again, then I grab my Old Spice stick deodorant and put that on.  Next I put on some undies, grab a pair of Zubas, a T-shirt and put them on.  Then I put the leg back on, along with a sock and a shoe on my good leg.  I stand up, put on my coat, feel in the pocket to make sure I have my keys, and I head for the door. . . .   Of course, the reflexives actions were in this color )

You will have noticed that we English-speakers do not always have to use the 'reflexive pronouns'MYSELF . . . HIMSELF . . . HERSELF . . . OURSELVES . . . ITSELF . . . THEMSELVES for a verb to denote a reflexive action.  In English, sometimes we use them:
I look at MYSELF in every mirror I walk by.
Scampy, my cat, cleans HERSELF fastidiously each day.
and sometimes we don't . . . just like the above paragraph demonstrated.    Please remember this:

You probably did not realize it, but you've been using a "reflexive verb" from the very first day of Spanish class with me.    Each time you answered my question, ¿Cómo te llamas? with "Me llamo _____," you were using the reflexive verb llamarse.

Steve says: If you examine this infinitive carefully, you will see the ol' -AR verb llamar embedded in there.
You say: So what's with that se attached to it?
Steve says: Well, that's a 'reflexive pronoun,' which serves as a "marker". . . it alerts you to the fact that this llamar verb is now a "reflexive verb" in its infinitive form.    The llamar, of course, means: "to call," like on the telephone or to call to dinner, and is used in sentences like: Yo llamo a mis padres cada domingo. *     The verb llamarse means "to call oneself."
You say: Oh.
Steve says: Is that pretty clear now?
You say: That's as clear as mud!
Steve says: Do you need some more information?
You say: Uh-huh.
Steve says: Okie-Dokie!
 
Here we go. Remember your verb conjugation chart? You know the one I mean:
 
Well, just like there are six conjugation cells for each verb in Spanish, there are six . . . count ‘em . . . six reflexive pronoun cells that fit into this same schematic, and each reflexive pronoun corresponds directly to the subject and verb conjugation in the cell. Let me show you what I mean. Here are the reflexive pronouns that go with yo, , él, ella, usted, mi madre, nosotros . . . and so on:
Now, we put them together with the conjugations of the verb llamar and, BAM!,
we have a beautifully conjugated reflexive verb. S- W- E- E- T- !! And now you can see exactly where we got that first-day icebreaker "¿Cómo te llamas?" and the correct answer "¿Me llamo _______?"
 
OK, let's make a quick list of the verbs that can be "reflexive verbs". I'll give you their English meanings too -- yep, you can believe all the good things you hear about me!! -- then we'll do some exercises with 'em.
despertarse (ie) to wake (oneself) up levantarse to get (oneself) up
lavarse to wash (oneself) cepillarse to brush (oneself)
limpiarse to clean (oneself) ducharse to shower (oneself)
bañarse to bathe (oneself) secarse to dry (oneself)
ponerse to put on (oneself) maquillarse to put makeup on (oneself)
cortarse to cut (oneself) romperse to break (oneself)
fracturarse to fracture (oneself) peinarse to comb (oneself)
morirse (ue) to die (oneself) echarse to throw (oneself)
casarse to get (oneself) married preocuparse to worry (oneself)
presentarse to introduce (oneself) cambiarse de to change (oneself) from
enamorarse to fall (oneself) in love with despedirse (i) to take (oneself's) leave of
mudarse to move (oneself) to or from trasladarse to transfer (oneself) to or from
quejarse de to complain (oneself) about equivocarse to find (oneself) in error
atreverse to get(oneself's)courage up enough to comportarse to comport (oneself)
suicidarse to kill (oneself) abstenerse(ie) to abstain (oneself) from
arrepentirse (ie) to repent (oneself) of perderse(ie) to lose (oneself)
meterse to put (oneself) acostarse(ue) to lay (oneself) down
desnudarse to get (oneself) naked
quitarse to remove from (oneself) or to remove from (oneself)
 
I'll show you how we move the pronoun around and conjugate out these "reflexive verbs" on the next page, OK?


Reflexive Lecture
Another Lecture
Conjugating Reflexive Verbs
Reflexive Worksheet I
Reflexive Worksheet II